Dr. Paavas Sharma holds a Bachelor's degree in Dental Surgery from Manipal Academy of Higher Education. In her journey, she has garnered numerous accolades for her creative writing. Proficient in both English and Hindi, she particularly enjoys delving into topics related to sexual and dental health and possesses experience in writing about oncology. Dr. Paavas has 3 years of professional writing experience and was also involved in editorial teams for magazines since her school and college days. Apart from writing she consistently seeks opportunities for personal expression and enjoyment, whether it's cooking, Netflix sessions or indulging in crafts.
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Updated on 12th May 2025
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Have you ever noticed that people often close their eyes during sex and wondered why?
It’s not weird or wrong — it’s actually very normal!
People usually close their eyes during sex because it helps them feel more, focus better, and connect emotionally.
It’s like how you close your eyes when you listen to your favorite song — it just feels more intense!
Now, let’s dive deeper into all the real reasons behind this simple but interesting act.
When you close your eyes, you stop looking at things around you.
Your brain has fewer things to process.
This means your brain can now focus more on how your body feels.
During sex, feeling touch, kisses, and body movements become stronger when you close your eyes.
It’s like all your senses — except sight — become supercharged.
Example:
Think about eating your favorite chocolate.
If you close your eyes while eating it, you can taste it better, right?
Same thing happens during sex!
Closing eyes during sex isn’t just about feeling physical pleasure.
It’s also about feeling emotional closeness.[1]
When you’re not focusing on how you or your partner look, you focus on how you feel about them.
It helps people feel more love, trust, and emotional intimacy.
Especially in romantic relationships, closing your eyes during sex can make the moment feel more special and deep.
Sometimes, people use their imagination during sex to make the experience even more exciting.
Closing your eyes can help you create little “daydreams” or “fantasies” in your mind.
You might imagine different scenarios, memories, or even exciting thoughts.
And guess what?
This is completely normal and even healthy.[2]
It’s just one more way to enjoy yourself and make the experience more fun.
Not everyone feels 100% confident during sex.
Some people might feel shy, nervous, or self-conscious about their body or performance.
Closing your eyes can help you:
It’s like giving yourself a little mental break so you can enjoy the moment without stress.
Sex is a very personal act.
Closing your eyes can make it feel even more private and meaningful.
It’s like you’re creating your own little world where only you and your partner exist.
Everything else fades away — stress, worries, the outside world — and you’re just present in that moment.
While making eye contact during sex can feel intimate for some, it can also feel too intense or overwhelming for others.
If someone feels shy, anxious, or very emotional, they might naturally close their eyes to:
Again — very normal and nothing to worry about!
Sometimes, people close their eyes simply because it’s a habit.
They might not even realize they are doing it!
It’s the same as how some people tap their feet while thinking or bite their lips when nervous — it just happens naturally.
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Some couples enjoy making eye contact during sex because:
So, while many people close their eyes, there’s no “right” or “wrong” way.
Everyone is different, and both ways are completely okay.
If you or your partner close your eyes during sex and you feel weird about it, remember:
Tip: If you’re ever confused, just talk to your partner openly.
Good communication makes everything easier and more comfortable!
If you find yourself unable to relax enough to close your eyes during sex, that’s okay too.
Here’s what you can try:
Sometimes, feeling completely safe and relaxed takes time — and that’s totally normal.
So, why do people close their eyes during sex?
Because it helps them feel pleasure more deeply, connect emotionally, imagine freely, and reduce anxiety.
Whether you close your eyes or keep them open, what matters most is that you feel good, safe, and connected with your partner.
Remember:
There’s no “one-size-fits-all” way to experience sex.
Trust your feelings, listen to your body, and enjoy the moment in a way that feels best for you!
