Is it normal to bleed during sex

After sex, after passing stools and sometimes for no reason I'm bleeding (spotting) for a day or two. I've had the copper coil for two years and this problem for a year. I had an internal & external ultrasound in May & vaginal (not cervical) swab which were fine and coil is fine. I'm nervous to go back to GP as I think they'll think I'm a hypercondriac but there's lots of female type cancers in my family but I'm only 26. My cousin had precancerous cells at 27 found by chance and i don't want to go in all guns blazing about cancer when I think the likelihood is still low but my colleague (Nurse) has advised me to prioritise it for that reason, and she still knew that I've had the HPV jabs as a teenager. I went to GP alot as a teenager for irregular periods and was palmed off for it being puberty but it carried until I stopped hormone contraception at 22 so it wasn't that. I don't want to waste thier time or be made to feel a fool but equally think its something that if it was just ruled out then I could just get on.

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