Sexuality And Getting Older
I am 70 years old. I can't understand why my penis is a lot bigger and harder when erect. Read more I am 70 years old. I can't understand why my penis is a lot bigger and harder when erect. I have more sex drive than ever and am getting erections all the time. I can't understand it. Most people my age don't have any desire for sex. I think about having sex all the time and wake up with a hard erection in the morning like a teenager. I feel ashamed of myself for this at my age, and it's embarrassing because sometimes I get erections while sitting on a bus or in a restaurant when looking at someone attractive. Read less
Experiencing more sexual desire and harder erections at 70 might come as a surprise, but it's something many people go through. As we age, our bodies change, and this can affect how we feel about sex. One reason for this could be changes in hormones, like testosterone. This hormone plays a big role in our sex drive and how strong our erections are. Sometimes, as we get older, our testosterone levels go up, which can make us feel more interested in sex and help us get harder erections.
But it's not just hormones that matter. Taking care of our health is also really important. Eating healthy foods, like fruits and vegetables, and exercising regularly can make a big difference. Exercise helps our blood flow better, which is important for getting and keeping erections. Finding ways to relax, like doing yoga or going for walks, can also help us feel better overall and improve our sex life.

It's also okay to feel a little embarrassed if you get an erection in public, like on a bus or in a restaurant. But it's important to remember that it's totally normal and nothing to be ashamed of, just like when you were younger.
If you're worried about your erections or how often they happen, it's a good idea to talk to a doctor. They can check if everything's okay and give you advice on what to do. But we want to say that talking openly with your partner about how you're feeling is really important. Sharing your feelings and worries can make your relationship stronger and bring you closer together, no matter how old you are. So don't be afraid to talk about it – your partner is there to support you!
Feeling more sexually aroused and having harder erections at 70 is normal and can be influenced by things like hormone levels and overall health. There's nothing to feel ashamed of, and it's important to talk openly with your partner and look after your health.
Key Takeaways
- -There's nothing to feel ashamed of, and it's important to talk openly with your partner and look after your health.
- - If you're worried about your erections or how often they happen, it might help to talk to a doctor. Keeping open communication with your partner about how you're feeling is key to a strong relationship.
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For more info on sexuality and getting older, check out these resources: Article from Harvard Health Publishing, Guide from Mayo Clinic about sexual health as you age and Tips from AARP for staying sexually healthy as you get older